I almost had an affair with a married Guy like me probably because he was really a wonderful guy and his words seemed liked the words that I wanted to hear from my husband - which I knew would never happen because he is already with his mistress in london...

This offficemate of mine was one of the wonderful men I've ever met, really. He was such a sweet guy we send messages even on our day-offs... even if he's with his family....

But then again there are things that make me a person with respect - respect for his wife and his son

A Dr. Phil puts it simply I asked myself these questions and of course temptations like these in the workplace are very rampant here are the questions I'll always keep in my heart...

Is it fair to her? She's been married to him for however many years, cleaned up after him when he's sick, raised children with him, sacrificed with him, dealt with the "damn dailies," then you come in at the 11th hour and provide a contrast to that that's new and exciting and fun. You are intruding upon her turf. You are a trespasser. It is no different than being a thief in the night. It is no different than breaking into their house and stealing their things.